Thanks so much for the suggestions and astonished empathy! I was definitely shocked to get it back in that condition. But I'm giving her a pass because she's a sweet 30-something mom who's currently taking care of 3 young foster children in addition to her toddler. So I'm going with the assumption that she somehow didn't realize what it looked like before. She's definitely scattered in general and has way more on her plate than I ever could/would. Although, still....!
And it's also a good reminder that I shouldn't lend my stuff out to anyone, because people can just be so clueless sometimes when you'd never expect it. It brought back to mind a time that I lent a pristine cookbook to a friend and when she gave it back to me, she had turned down several corners of recipes when she was looking through it. Now
that really astonished me. How in the world could someone think that's acceptable? I ended up giving her that book for the next Christmas because it annoyed me so much every time I opened it.
So I guess the moral of the story is don't be generous when it comes to sharing anything but food from one's kitchen, and always have some Dawn Powerdissolver under the sink. I'm picking some up today and will report back
